About me

Your Well-Balanced Husband

Hi there! If you've reached this page, it's probably because you said to yourself "who the hell is this guy over here saying he's a 'well-balanced husband'???". Well, that would be me. My name is Matt Cegelka. I am a married man with 2 beautiful and lively daughters (wish me luck!) and a resident of North Haven for the last 6 years. Nice to meet ya!!!

I came up with the Well-Balanced Husband term in 2021 when I was trying to be like all the cool kids and figure out what my side hustle should be. When I racked my brain, I could never come up with just one thing. And then...we found out we were having a second baby. I put the whole side hustle thing on hold. But with a pregnant wife who has a very demanding job, I ended up having to pick up some slack around the house. I also had to figure out how the hell we were going to afford a second kid. This is a lot when you're also trying to work a full-time job, but I generally loved doing all the little things in and out of the house.

Now, you can't exactly make a living just completing the daily tasks and chores that need to be done, but I figured if I could provide those services for the tasks I enjoy doing the most, I would find joy in that. And isn't that what life is all about? Finding as much joy as possible? Not only do I love and am good at cleaning up leaves, doing yard work, budgeting, and numerous other household things, but I truly truly do find the most pleasure helping people. I haven't really worked directly with people in almost a decade so I relish the thought of doing so once again.

As I write this, I cannot forget to mention the person who I gained my love for yard work from: my father. Most of his jobs that I remember were of some sort of maintenance and/or home care. Between that and him being the caregiver for my grandparents house for most of his adult life, he is who I have to thank for my love of lawn care and odd jobs around the house.

So if you're looking for a guy who loves what he does, has the most fun doing it, and will absolutely make you laugh at least once per day, hire me, your Well-Balanced Husband!!!